
Iceage
Posted on: Monday, October 22, 2007
Posted at: 10:43 PM
We are turnin down to e bottom end of e cliff again.. it was so hard tt we try to climb up.. n yet we came fallin down, again. i hate e tension. Its like u argued, n u hurt ur loved one, u got even more hurt. Posted at: 10:43 PM
Have we ever put into each others shoes, and understand how different a man and a woman convey their messages?
Have we ever concern abt how upset ur loved one will be when u do a particular thing, and nv to do it again just for e sake of not him/her.. but for e sake of us being able to spend a wonderful time together?
Have we ever try to restrain ourselves from reminding him/her tt its his/her fault when he/she has already bring e dignity down to say sorry sincerely in front of you? And telling him/her instead that I'll always love you for what you are no matter wad happens, cause its what you are that makes me fall in love with you..
Have we ever appreciate each and every "i love you" and "i miss you" written in every messages that we receive? Or we only realise their importance when they finally never appear for a few wks, or even months..
Have we ever realise how badly he/she wanted to patch up when he/she picked up the biggest courage to call you after a big fight? Or we just simply take for granted that its his/her fault and he/she should make an effort to call..
Have we ever try to accept wad he/she is even though there are thousands of bad points that you hate abt him/her, not telling him/her to change what you want him/her to be.. But instead telling ourselves that thats what makes up the one you deeply loved?
Have we ever stop pointing fingers at your loved one, teling him/her that he/she shouldnt have done this or that too even after you had just said "im sorry its my fault"..? Have we eva just say "Im sorry its my fault".."Hey im sorry too! I have my mistakes too..".. n we smile to each other like nothing has happen before?
Have we realise how tolerable we can be when we first started dating to be couple.. n yet being so impatient and frustrated over things that can be easily understood n accepted if it were to be happened in the past?
Have we ever realise how hurt our heart can be everytime we quarrel,argue,fight.. and stop it cause its not worth hurting ourselves this way..
Have we actually learn to understand the Martians n the Venusians?
I wana reflect on all this points.. and no "This point i've done, but u nv did" is to be heard.. This is not a checklist.. Im not pointing out faults, im just popping out qns to reflect on our own selves.. but hey at least i know most of them i nv did.. should start working on them nw..
I need a vacation.







